Is this medical advice?

No. This page is educational support for parents and should be used alongside qualified clinicians, early intervention teams, or school teams.

What should I do if I am worried?

Document what you are seeing, support communication in low-pressure routines, and ask a pediatrician, SLP, early intervention program, or school team about evaluation options.

4-year-old speech goals: social greetings

Sample IEP goal: social greetings

What it targets: using greetings and social words.

Example goal: Given a familiar activity and adult support as needed, the student will use an appropriate greeting, such as hi or bye, with a peer or adult in 4 out of 5 opportunities across 3 consecutive sessions, as measured by clinician data, by the next annual review.

How it is measured: clinician or teacher data across sessions, comparing performance to the baseline.

Use these as starting language

IEP speech goals for 4 year old working on social greetings should be individualized by the school team. The examples below are parent-friendly starting points, not legal or clinical language to paste without review.

Sample goal shape

Given natural classroom routines and appropriate supports, the student will practice social greetings for a functional purpose such as requesting, commenting, answering, protesting, or repairing communication breakdowns across multiple opportunities.

Make the support level explicit

A good goal states whether the child uses speech, AAC, gestures, visual supports, modeling, choices, wait time, or adult prompts. Without the support level, progress is hard to interpret.

Questions for the team

Ask where the skill will be practiced, who will model it, how AAC access is protected, how progress will be measured, and how the goal connects to participation in the classroom.

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Important: Little Words is educational support for home practice. It is not a medical device, not an AAC replacement, and not a substitute for a licensed speech-language pathologist, pediatrician, early intervention program, school team, or developmental evaluation.